“Does It Work, Being Formal In Conveying Good-Wishes?”

“Does It Work, Being Formal In Conveying Good-Wishes?”
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“Starts The Festive-Holydays To Initiate The Useless-Formal-Not From The Heart Ordeal Of “Well Wishes” … That Starts With The Copied Massages From All Friends & Relatives, Which Does Not Mean ‘Really’ Anything.”
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Isn’t it strange that – The human mind naturally is being perceived as dumb-inactive-feeling less… which achieves exactly the opposite result? As, People evaluate our intentions-interests-feelings as their own, and behave or send messages…!!! 
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For example, when I throw a new year’s pictures on social-media with messages like “Great Party Is Here!!!”, even if “I’m not happy”… but on the contrary in fact, it seems that I do not deliberately being loud on a clear message that “I am Jay and please do not to send me copied cards or links”. As, I would not read it!!! …Similarly, for the birthday you receive some “Expensive 1920’s Swedish Scotch + Cognac-cool”, but of course, You Do Not Drink at-all for the last twenty years, and this gift underscores the indifference of its author. Says the tag-label – “Open Up & Be Happy!!”… adding to your pain of useless-gift is the tag-label advise… as that ‘Fart’ have No Idea that – “You do not need to be drunk to speak-out the truth loudly…” 
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Of course as a “the practice of kindness”… Why it is for us to accept the wrong greetings?… is that a great-ability to accept people as they are and to perceive their actions as feedback on our own-self-being? We’re also not different from those farts… How much we tried to learn-know about others? At-the-same-time, how well have we tried to convey them our values or being a unique we? If they are not very-good at translating their values in action, then both should work-on-it. 
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But here’s what we do ourselves… is another matter. So, I would like you to work on this issue, my friends: be careful… Ask yourself, how healthy are your intentions-interests to develop and preserve the relationships… whether your “congratulations/greetings” enters the recipient’s physical-needs or heart-feelings? Whether, you are simply performing a social function through computer+Internet without giving a thought? Whether, you want to make them heart-feel the message which makes a difference to them Or that gesture was not less than the pleasure of greeting than your ego from what is greeted? Did your intention of greetings stood-out among the other special warmth, sincerity, lightness, and humor…in short – the fact is that… “did he/she appreciated it from the heart?”… Think. 
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At the end, congratulations to the 90% of the socially-spammed useless-greetings!! Therefore, other times the best choice would be simply to abstain and do not indulge in such unwanted act. And certainly you should refrain, if you do not want to congratulate or covey the right-greetings to develop a personal relationship. Otherwise, the Grandfather-Ganesha will be very displeased with you/him/her.
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“Just A Thought Series – 002”
– Jayendra Ashara …2015.01.06…
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